It happened again. We’re at dinner and a familiar face comes up and says, “Hi, do you know who I am? I bet you don’t remember my name?”

Why would someone say that? Why would they put me in a position where I either have to insult them or embarrass myself? Obviously, if I remembered their name, I would have said, “Hi, Sally!”

When placed in this awkward position, what can I do but attempt to gracefully let Sally know that while, at this moment I can’t bring up her name, of course, I remember her. “I’m so sorry, I know you, but just can’t place your name.” I feebly replied.

When you see an acquaintance it is lovely to say hello. Go up to them, extend your hand and say, “YOUR NAME--- it’s good to see you.” Then, it is really considerate to give them a frame of reference as to the context you know each other. For example, “I know it’s been a while since our boys played soccer, but it’s so nice to run into you again.”
If the person did not remember your name, you just saved them from embarrassment. If they did, they can reply, “Oh, (your name) how could I not remember you!

Laura@realwomenwin.com #bereal.